Commander returns from deployment and reflects on life at home Published April 29, 2008 By Lt. Col. Tim Horton 916th Communication Squadron SEYMOUR JOHNSON AIR FORCE BASE, N.C. -- After you've been away from home for a period of time, what's the first thing you notice? I suppose it depends on what the circumstances were surrounding your trip. Getting back from a vacation, we sometimes feel overwhelmed with all the things to do in preparation for getting back into our regular routines. The homecoming may give you the opportunity to think; reflecting on the events of our travels--could be happy or sad. We have certain expectations of being back "under our roof" which cause many to dream of being there, especially when the present situation isn't to our liking. For those who are deployed or have been deployed, going home brings a variety of thoughts and actions. Many wonderful thoughts of getting back to familiar surroundings, being with our loved ones, back to normal life. All emotions felt, however, aren't pleasant--many have fears, anxieties and doubts. Experiencing both sides of that fence, I know similar thoughts and feelings are felt with both the deployers and the housekeepers. Returning home from a recent Middle East adventure in Iraq, I am delighted to be here. A couple of things immediately grab my attention. The beauty of this country, but especially here in North Carolina is one of the first things I notice. Even though Iraq isn't as bleak as I expected, it's not the same. With temperatures hitting in the 90s and even a few in the 100s before I left, stepping into a cool, springtime environment is refreshing. Looking at the beauty of nature as the trees, bushes, and flowers awake from their winter's nap is amazing. Iraq does have some beauty as well--bushes and flowers were blooming which I enjoyed, but it's hard to equate what I saw there with the magnitude of what one step outside does for me here. One of the best things I've enjoyed since returning is taking deep, clean, sweet-smelling breaths of fresh air. I know I've taken all of these things for granted, especially the clean air. Most of us are guilty--until we are either denied or limited access to things we use every day without thinking about, we don't appreciate them. I'm telling you, go out and breathe all the fresh air you can--even try to do so for someone not here. Driving without major restrictions is another privilege we have and don't regard it as such until it too is diminished or totally taken away. Just the ability to jump into your favorite ride (or at least your current vehicle) and drive to the shopping mall, restaurant, sporting event, or other place of your choice is a tremendous honor. If you don't think so, begin using your personal mode of transportation--your two feet--and walk everywhere. I think you'll soon see my point. I am an extremely blessed person--what more do I need! I am a member of the greatest nation on Earth. I am part of the world's best military--the premier Air Force. I am not alone--you can also inventory your blessings. Even though I'm overjoyed to home, there are items about our society I wish I could change. Watch the news or read a newspaper and see how many crimes and acts of violence/selfishness you find! I'm seeing all too often we're developing into a "me-centered" nation. No matter where we are located, our occupations, or our current economic status look around and remember to take time to enjoy the people in our lives, the things that go unnoticed, and especially our way of life--believe me, there are worse places to be.